The family of Valerie French-Kilroy says her death is too much for them to take in.
The body of the 41-year-old mother of three was found at her home near Westport, Co Mayo last week.
Her husband - 46-year-old James Kilroy - has been charged with her murder.
In a statement issued today, her family describe Valerie as an immensely caring person and a loving wife who adored her three children.
They say they are heartbroken, and that the situation "is all too much, at this early stage, for us to take in".
They said: "Valerie was a much loved daughter, sister, niece, cousin, friend and colleague to many
"Valerie was an immensely caring and loving person - this was her calling at work and at home throughout her life.
"We are hugely grateful for the outpouring of sorrow following Valerie’s death, and also for the goodwill and practical support so many people are showing to us."
Ms French Kilroy will be buried in West Cork - a place her family says she adored.
They add that they "hope and pray that the privacy and tragedy of our grief will be respected".
