Listener email: 'I’m the one that’s making all the effort when it comes to arranging dates and calls and meeting up. My friend’s say that I’m being ‘too keen’, and that if I want him to reciprocate I need to step back a bit.' What do you think? Clare chats to Feargal Harrington CEO/Director Intro matchmaking & hears from listeners 

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