It was revealed that Angelina Jolie asked her kids to give their father, Brad Pitt, the cold shoulder during custody visits to try to build a wedge between them. 

So often children are used and are hurt during the breakdown of a relationship. How can you avoid this and make sure the process is straightforward when children are involved?  

Michelle Browne, is senior family mediator and author of “Scars of Divorce: How to avoid them and achieve an amicable divorce in Modern Ireland” and joins Kieran to discuss.